Stooge_Farsan, I think you're making a critical mistake-- NEVER, I repeat, NEVER use clubmen to take care of the wife rush. It can, and will, result in the quick depletion of half of your resources! Plus, she takes half of your houses and other buildings, too. Brutal.
My wife doesn't like you people very much anymore, either. She's getting pretty good at that "Oh, No. Not that game again!" speech. I had just begun a decent bronze attack in a 3v3 game when she got mad and slammed the door to the computer room on her way to another part of the house the other night. I'm trying to solve this by playing after she goes to sleep for a while, but I don't know how long that can hold up. 8-)